This assignment made me realize that my actions are not as I perceive them, and I will attempt to change my language, verbal and non-verbal as I interact with others. While my assessments came from close friends I have known for multiple years, my actions could look more concerning to those who have not known me as long. When working with families and colleagues, I need to show that I understand, I am listening and that I can effectively communication with them to continue to build a positive relationship (O’Hair and Wiemann, 2009).
I was most shocked in regards to my being impatient. I never noticed just how many times I will look at the clock, or simply end a conversation. I admit to never saying that I could only talk for a short amount of time, but I never realized that I wouldn’t give a small notification that I would have to leave soon, even if I never did when the conversations began. I worry now if that appears in other situations as when talking with families, and this si something I am going to pay closer attention to.
I also liked to utilize the Platinum rule, which is to treat others how they would like to be treated. Thus meaning I would need to be more open in communications with others, in order to understand how they wish to be treated by me and others. I could always guess, but that could be wrong. I also like the strategy to agree to disagree, showing you understand they have a view, and opinion, but that you do not agree and will be okay with leaving it at that. Both sides are able to discuss the issues at hand, and they at least both know where the other stands on an issue.
I also liked to utilize the Platinum rule, which is to treat others how they would like to be treated. Thus meaning I would need to be more open in communications with others, in order to understand how they wish to be treated by me and others. I could always guess, but that could be wrong. I also like the strategy to agree to disagree, showing you understand they have a view, and opinion, but that you do not agree and will be okay with leaving it at that. Both sides are able to discuss the issues at hand, and they at least both know where the other stands on an issue.
O’Hair, D., & Wiemann, M. (2009). Real communication: An introduction. New York: Bedford/St. Martin’s.
5 comments:
Cassie,
I think this week assignments have helped us all to be aware of changes that we need to improve our communication skills. It would be nice for all of us to utilize the Platinum Rule, which is to treat others how they would like to be treated. While working with families and children; it is importnat to use understanding and listening as effective communication skills.
Cassie,
I like your idea of adopting the "Platinum Rule" since that was also one of the things I wanted to implement. I also like your idea of agreeing to disagree, as this is a good skill for communication.
Hi Cassie. Impatience is something that I found out about myself too that I was surprised. This class continues to allow me to learn more about myself and others.
Cassie,
I found this week's assignment to be very enlightening. I think your feedback from your friends will provide you valuable information about yourself and make you a better friend and collegue. I also think the Platinum rule is always a wonderful montra for all of us to follow.
Cassie, I believe that we all found something we need to improve when it comes to communicating with others. I need to relax when communicating with others. I find myself at a high anxiety level when it comes to speaking to people in higher authority. I agree the Platinum Rule is the best to improve all communication skills. Thank for sharing
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